Controlling Yourself — Can I Really?

By Kerry Skinner / August 19, 2021 / Comments Off on Controlling Yourself — Can I Really?

Do you have trouble controlling yourself? Is it even possible to control yourself? How can we control ourselves? I understand wanting to control other people. We all have a desire at some level to control those problem people at work, home, or church. Who would you control if you had that ability? People have difficulty…

How Does the Truth Affect You?

By Kerry Skinner / July 20, 2021 / Comments Off on How Does the Truth Affect You?

When you are faced with the truth, how does truth affect you? Christians who have knowingly committed sin and then are corrected in humility will either become mellow or hard hearted when they hear the truth. If you are the one being corrected, you will face the same choice of response. Your response to truth…

Are You Ready To Change?

By Kerry Skinner / June 21, 2021 / Comments Off on Are You Ready To Change?

Change may be needed but are you ready to change? How do you you know when a friend is ready to hear and apply the truth of their situation? There is no guarantee that you will know but you must estimate when the counselee is ready to consider a biblical description of the problem and take…

Unnoticed By People But Heard by God!

By Kerry Skinner / June 21, 2021 / Comments Off on Unnoticed By People But Heard by God!

Being unnoticed by people is self-defeating to many–but it is not so much what others think about you that is important, rather, it is whether you are accepted by God. If thousands of people in this world accept you, but God does not accept you, you are simply not acceptable. I pray this story will…

What is the Difference Between the Indwelling of the Spirit and Being Filled by the Spirit?

By Kerry Skinner / June 15, 2021 / Comments Off on What is the Difference Between the Indwelling of the Spirit and Being Filled by the Spirit?

Truly it is impossible to live the Christian life in your own human strength. The Christian life depends upon the work of the Holy Spirit in the life of a believer. With that in mind, what is the difference between the indwelling of the Holy Spirit and being filled with the Spirit? What Does Indwelling…

Peace and Satisfaction In This World?

By Kerry Skinner / June 5, 2021 / Comments Off on Peace and Satisfaction In This World?

Why are Christians not in the least embarrassed over the absence of peace and rest in their lives? Jesus clearly tells us that it is His intention for us to move through this world peacefully and cheerfully, untroubled and unafraid as long as we look to Him to enable us. With such a resource readily…

Obedience and Morality

By Kerry Skinner / May 31, 2021 / Comments Off on Obedience and Morality

What is the relationship between obedience and morality? Which is best to have? …and being ready to punish all disobedience when your obedience is fulfilled (2 Corinthians 10:6 NKJV). Many people wonder how they stop disobeying God? Let me share a secret with you–do not try to stop disobeying–rather, work on obeying! Yet they would…

The Bible Guides The Believer

By Kerry Skinner / May 25, 2021 / Comments Off on The Bible Guides The Believer

The Bible guides the believer as God’s representative to others to reveal the truth of God. You may not consider yourself a biblical counselor as a career path but all believers are biblical counselors in daily life. Your specialty is a comprehensive knowledge of the Bible and absolute confidence that it is God’s sure guide…

The Christian Life: A Human Impossibility

By Kerry Skinner / March 30, 2021 / Comments Off on The Christian Life: A Human Impossibility

Learning the basics of Christianity is relatively simple–if knowledge of the how to’s are all you desire. Simply listing the commands of Christ does not require an in depth study nor a massive amount of time. Putting into practice the commands of Christ is quite different. To do what Christ says requires study, devotion, prayer,…

Who Is Fighting Your Battle?

By Kerry Skinner / February 22, 2021 / Comments Off on Who Is Fighting Your Battle?

Have you ever tried to solve your problems when you knew that you really couldn’t solve them even with your greatest effort? Our tendency is to find a way to cause everything to work out the way we want it to be resolved with all of our personal human resources. Maybe your spirit knew that…